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Victoria Porteous
Experience
11 years
Based in
United Kingdom
Sessions
Online
Languages
English

Therapist or counsellor · United Kingdom

Victoria Porteous

NCPS

Empathetic, practical counselling that helps you move forward

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NCPS
United Kingdom · VG00P07

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  • Personable conversations
  • Trauma informed
  • Practical tools

About Victoria

Victoria Porteous NCPS brings a warm, conversational style to counselling. She speaks from personal experience of loss, addiction and the benefits of therapy. Sessions are straightforward and down to earth, with a focus on helping people find direction and feel less stuck.

She keeps sessions personable and sometimes light-hearted so conversations feel natural rather than clinical. Victoria says strong connection with a counsellor matters and aims to build that from the first meetings. She will gently challenge unhelpful thoughts to open up new perspectives.

Victoria has worked across charity and private settings, including running counselling services for a Government-backed trauma charity during the Covid period. During that time she supported people with complex trauma and also worked with charity referrals sent via doctors and government agencies.

Her background includes work with leaders, athletes and professionals, and she regularly speaks on national radio about mental health and social equality. She also has experience as a private investigator, which she says sharpened listening and observational skills now used in sessions.

Victoria uses a blend of evidence-based approaches, tailoring work to each person’s needs. She helps with stress, anxiety, relationship and family difficulties, trauma and addiction-related concerns. She also supports people facing identity, intimacy and motivation challenges. Her practice is shaped by eleven years of experience and the NCPS credential she holds.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

11+ years

Credentials

NCPS · United Kingdom

Languages

English

Online therapy approaches and how they help

Victoria integrates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy in straightforward ways. CBT focuses on spotting unhelpful thinking patterns and testing them with practical experiments, which can help with anxiety, low mood and addictive behaviours. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current ways of relating and can be useful for intimacy issues, abandonment fears and relationship conflict.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Victoria will discuss goals and preferences and together they will decide which methods to try first. That collaborative planning helps ensure sessions feel relevant and manageable from the start.

Check the current session options before booking, as formats are not listed in her profile. Online therapy can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also be useful when quieter surroundings or reduced screen time are required, since different formats suit different practical needs. Registered or accredited professionals often adapt tools and exercises so they work well in remote sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Victoria help with?

She works with stress and anxiety, relationship and family conflict, trauma and abuse, addiction issues and self-esteem concerns among other areas listed. Narcissism is included in her focus areas where relevant to client needs.

What is her style of therapy like?

Her approach is conversational and personable, with occasional light humour. She combines gentle challenge with practical suggestions to help people consider different perspectives.

How long has she practised?

She has eleven years of professional experience working in both charity and private settings, including a period running trauma counselling services during the Covid pandemic.

What credentials and region are listed for this counsellor?

She holds NCPS and works in the United Kingdom as indicated in her profile.

Which languages does she offer sessions in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted, so sessions are provided to clients within the stated region only.

How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to book?

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