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Paula Ciocirlau
Experience
8 years
Based in
United Kingdom
Sessions
Online
Languages
English, Romanian

Therapist or counsellor · United Kingdom

Paula Ciocirlau

BACP

Compassionate counsellor for practical change

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Registration on record

BACP
United Kingdom · 387673

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  • Client-centred focus
  • Solution-oriented
  • Internal parts work

About Paula

Paula Ciocirlau is a counsellor who focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, depression and relationship strain. She supports clients dealing with parenting pressures, career concerns, grief and trauma, as well as issues like self-esteem, anger, addiction and ADHD. Paula speaks English and Romanian and brings eight years of practice to her work in the United Kingdom.

Paula works in a collaborative way. She treats the person, not just the problem, and invites clients to set clear goals together. Sessions aim to be practical and centred on what matters to each individual. She uses straightforward tools to help people make changes that fit their everyday life.

Her background includes study and early practice beginning in Vienna in 2016, a city noted for its psychotherapy history. That international experience informs her sensitivity to cultural differences and how life circumstances shape well-being. Paula holds BACP accreditation, which is listed among her professional details.

In therapy she draws on client-centred and systemic ideas alongside Internal Family Systems work. That mix gives space for understanding internal parts, practical solutions and a focus on the client’s own experience. Sessions typically combine listening, gentle challenge and practical steps to try between meetings.

People who contact Paula can expect a calm, non-judgemental approach that concentrates on clear goals. She encourages steady progress and helps clients develop coping strategies for everyday challenges. To begin, clients use the site’s matching and scheduling process to arrange sessions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesCareer difficultiesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English, Romanian

Working online with client-centred and solution-focused methods

Paula draws on client-centred therapy, which places the client’s experience at the heart of the work and emphasises being heard and understood. This approach helps when people need a steady, empathetic space to make sense of feelings and begin to change.

She also uses solution-focused methods that hone in on small, achievable steps and clear goals. These techniques suit people who want practical strategies to manage problems like anxiety, stress or relationship tensions. Internal Family Systems work is used to notice and work with different parts of a person’s inner life, which can be helpful for issues such as trauma responses, self-criticism or conflicted feelings.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals, try methods together and adjust the plan based on what helps most. Clients are invited to offer feedback so sessions remain focused on their needs and preferences.

Practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions around work and family commitments, saving travel time and allowing people to meet from familiar surroundings. Because the biography does not list specific session formats, confirm the current session options before booking to ensure they suit your needs and schedule.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Paula help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression and relationship strain, and also supports people facing parenting, career, grief, trauma, addiction and self-esteem issues.

What is her approach to therapy?

Paula uses client-centred listening alongside solution-focused techniques and Internal Family Systems ideas to help clients set goals and try practical steps between sessions.

How long has she been practising?

She has eight years of experience, having begun her psychotherapy work in Vienna in 2016.

What professional credentials does she hold and where is she based?

Paula lists BACP among her credentials and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if English is not my first language?

Sessions are offered in English and Romanian to support clients who prefer either language.

Does she work with clients outside her country?

She accepts international clients, so people outside the United Kingdom can enquire about working together.

How much do sessions cost?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Paula?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to the therapist’s availability.

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