- Calm and non-judgemental
- Practical coping help
- Warm listening
About Paula
Paula helps people facing stress and anxiety, relationship strains and family problems. She also supports those dealing with trauma and abuse, grief, addictions and intimacy-related difficulties. Her wider focus includes attachment and abandonment issues, body image, caregiver stress, and challenges linked to autism and blended family life.
In sessions she works at each person’s pace and aims to make therapy feel workable. Conversations are grounded and plain. Paula listens for patterns that make life harder and helps people try new ways of coping. She keeps things practical and straightforward, with room for emotion and reflection.
Her approach draws on a mix of methods to match each person’s needs. Paula uses attachment-focused ideas, client-centred ways of working, cognitive behavioural techniques and emotionally focused practices, plus elements of Jungian thinking. She discusses options with clients and adapts what happens in therapy as progress unfolds.
People meeting Paula can expect warm, direct support and steady encouragement. She understands how hard the first step feels and aims to make the process manageable. If someone wants to start, Paula asks them to breathe, take one step, and she will walk alongside them.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Also works with
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Therapeutic approaches
Experience
6+ years
Credentials
BACP · United Kingdom
Languages
English
Approaches that guide online work and how they help
Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns in relationships and how early bonds shape current reactions; it can help people understand trust, closeness and abandonment concerns. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person’s experience in the moment and uses empathic listening to help them find their own solutions and build self-trust. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) helps people spot unhelpful thinking and try practical changes in behaviour to reduce anxiety and stress.Finding the right approach is part of the work. Paula will talk with each person about their needs, goals and preferences and choose methods together. That collaborative planning means the way sessions run can change as progress is made and new priorities emerge.
If you are considering online therapy, confirm the available session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, help avoid travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also make it simpler to access support from another part of the UK or overseas. Registered or accredited professionals, including therapists, aim to adapt their methods so the work is useful even when it is not in person.
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of concerns does Paula help with?
Paula supports people with stress, anxiety, relationship and family problems, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions and intimacy-related issues. She also addresses related topics such as attachment and abandonment, body image and caregiver stress.
How would you describe Paula's therapy style?
Her style is calm, direct and non-judgemental. Sessions are plainspoken, paced to the person's needs, and focus on listening, reflection and practical coping strategies.
What background does Paula bring to her work?
She worked in a GP surgery, a homeless hostel and with the Samaritans before moving into counselling. Those roles influenced her focus on honest listening and care.
What professional credential does Paula hold and where is she based?
Paula is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.
In which languages can sessions be held?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can international clients work with Paula?
She accepts international clients. Please check practical details about scheduling and time zones before booking.
How are fees and payments handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin working with Paula?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to therapist availability.
Before you get in touch
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