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Dumebi Onyejiaka
Experience
5 years
Based in
United Kingdom
Sessions
Online
Languages
English

Therapist or counsellor · United Kingdom

Dumebi Onyejiaka

BACP

Compassionate counsellor for relationship and family struggles

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Registration on record

BACP
United Kingdom · 402673

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  • Relationship support
  • Attachment focus
  • Trauma aware

About Dumebi

Dumebi Onyejiaka is a counsellor who helps people work through relationship and family strains. She also supports those dealing with parenting pressures, low self-esteem, anxiety, depression and the effects of trauma and abuse. Many people come to her for help with stress, grief, anger and intimacy-related worries. She believes people are the experts on their own lives. Her approach starts by listening and building on a person's existing strengths. Sessions are framed around what the client wants to change and practical steps they can try between meetings. Dumebi draws on approaches that look at how early attachment and past relationships shape current patterns. She uses client-centred conversations that keep the person and their goals central. She also brings psychodynamic and existential ideas into the work when exploring deeper life questions and recurring difficulties. Her practice includes attention to common but painful problems such as abandonment, codependency, commitment and control issues. She also supports people facing family problems like blended family challenges, divorce and fatherhood issues, and cares for those experiencing caregiver stress and compassion fatigue. Dumebi holds BACP registration, which she lists as her professional credential. She has five years of professional experience and works from the United Kingdom. Sessions are conducted in English, and she accepts clients from outside the UK as well.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesSelf esteemCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsNarcissismParanoiaPostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English

How attachment and client-centred work translate to online therapy

Attachment-based ideas focus on how early relationships shape current patterns. Online sessions can use these ideas to map how past experiences affect present relationships and intimacy. Client-centred therapy centres the person's own goals and values, so online meetings are used to listen, reflect and help clients decide practical next steps for their lives.

These approaches suit people who want a collaborative, exploratory process. The therapist will work with each person to find which methods fit best. Together they will look at goals, preferences and how each approach can be blended to address relationship, trauma or self-esteem concerns.

The practical benefits of online work include fitting sessions into a busy week and avoiding travel time. Since the biography does not specify session formats, confirm the current options before booking. Many people find online meetings helpful for keeping continuity of care while balancing family and work commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this counsellor commonly address?

The counsellor supports people with relationship and family issues, parenting challenges, self-esteem, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, anger and depression. She also works on specific areas like abandonment, codependency and blended family problems.

How would you describe the therapist's style in sessions?

She uses a listening-led, client-centred style that focuses on the client's goals and strengths. Conversations aim to be practical and supportive while also allowing space to reflect on deeper patterns.

What background and experience does she bring?

She has five years of professional experience working with the listed concerns. Her work emphasises building on what clients already know about their lives and helping them take steps towards change.

What credentials and location are listed?

She lists BACP as her credential and is based in the United Kingdom. This is the professional registration detail she provides.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with this counsellor?

Yes, she accepts clients from outside the United Kingdom.

How are sessions priced or paid for?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time according to the facts provided.

What is the process to begin working together?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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